Most people love fantasies. Whether it is Star Trek, Mills and Boon or kinky sex, the desire to enjoy and act out these fantasies in a safe environment is part of human behaviour.
Playing the submissive in the bedroom (or the kitchen, living room or outdoors) in a sexual context can be exhilarating for both men and women. The rush of endorphins that the roller coaster ride creates can be wonderfully stimulating.